Cary Schmidt
Skip to content
  • Home
  • About/Contact
  • Archives
  • Books
  • Music CDs
  • Sheet Music
  • Ministry Links
  • Photos
  • The Best News You’ve Ever Read
« Overworked or Under-Appreciated?
Making the Busiest Time of Year the Best! »

A Funny Reminder to be Thankful!

By caryschmidt | November 26, 2009

fallleaf

Several weeks ago, a dear friend sent me this story and the encouragement that follows. I repost it here, on Thanksgiving Day in hopes that it will encourage you.

Two old friends met each other on the street one day.  One looked forlorn, almost on the verge of tears.  His friend asked, “What has the world done to you, my old friend?”

The sad fellow said, “Let me tell you:  three weeks ago, my uncle died and left me forty thousand dollars.”

“That’s a lot of money.”

“But you see, two weeks ago, a cousin I never even knew died, and left me eighty-five thousand dollars, free and clear.”

“Sounds to me that you’ve been very blessed.”

“You don’t understand!” he interrupted.  “Last week my great-aunt passed away.  I inherited almost a quarter of a million from her.”

Now the man’s friend was really confused.  “Then, why do you look so glum?”

“This week . . . nothing!”

That’s a problem with receiving something on a regular basis.  Even if it is a gift, we eventually come to expect it.  The natural tendency is that if we receive a gift long enough, we come to view it almost as an entitlement.  We feel hurt, even angry, if we don’t receive it any longer.

It is the same way with the blessings God gives us every day.  I don’t deserve my comfortable home that I live in, the beautiful scenery around me, the clean water I drink.  But after receiving these gifts (and a multitude of others) for years, I sometimes fail to be grateful.  I’ve come to expect these good things.  And when one of them is removed for a short time (like water or electricity or internet going down), I get upset.

Let’s make an effort today to recognize the blessing we’ve come to take for granted.  Focus on what we have rather than on what we don’t have, and see if it doesn’t improve our attitudes.

For a quick read from last year’s family trip for Thanksgiving, enjoy this story: Learning to Laugh With and At Each Other.

Happy Thanksgiving and thank you for stopping by!

“Oh, that men would give thanks to the Lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men!”  Psalm 107:8

If you enjoyed this post, make sure you subscribe to my RSS feed!

Related posts:

  1. Why I’m Thankful for a Godly Wife
  2. Lessons from a 17th Century Graveyard
  3. The Best Investments We Can Make
  4. Learning to Laugh With and At Each Other
  5. Overworked or Under-Appreciated?
  6. Thankful for Christian Education
  7. Embracing the Seasons of Life
  8. Sweet Revenge on My 17 Year Old!

This entry was posted in christian life, humor and tagged biblical living, humor. Bookmark the permalink. Post a comment or leave a trackback: Trackback URL.
« Overworked or Under-Appreciated?
Making the Busiest Time of Year the Best! »

2 Comments

  1. Carrlee Campbell
    Posted November 26, 2009 at 10:49 pm | Permalink

    Thank you for posting that short story. It encouraged me to be more thankful and content with the things I have.

  2. Nathaniel Dame
    Posted November 29, 2009 at 2:49 pm | Permalink

    Wow what a story! Man what a reminder. I’ve been coming to a realization lately of just how blessed we (my wife and I) are. Even tho there’s so much we may want or strive for, we are so blessed, and it is all from God.

    Hey we’re actually working on building a resource library for youth leaders and youth pastors. I wanted to ask if you’d be interested in contributing any resources & joining the conversation.

    The new (growing) library is here:
    http://www.calledtoyouthministry.com/resources

    And you can contribute your own resource here:
    http://www.calledtoyouthministry.com/contribute

    Would love to see what you might share–even some of the posts you’ve written already would be perfect. Let me know. Blessings!

Post a Comment

Your email is never published nor shared. Required fields are marked *

*
*
  • shortfooter2
  • Subscribe
  • Twitter
  • Popular Posts

    • Top 15 Questions Christian Teens Ask
    • Ministry Idea: 3 Questions
    • What Teens Ask About Their Parents
    • Discipline that Develops the Heart
    • Before You Criticize Your Pastor...
    • Becoming an Insightful Parent
    • Vacation Highlights 2010
    • 10 Things Teens Won't Tell You (Part 1)
    • Spiritual Leadership Conference 2010
    • Becoming an Insightful Parent #2
  • Categories

  • Topics

    • family(70)
    • student ministry(68)
    • parenting(60)
    • biblical living(53)
    • ministry(50)
    • teen life(47)
    • local church(37)
    • leadership(32)
    • adolescence(30)
    • technology(25)
    • counseling(23)
    • productivity(20)
    • striving together(20)
    • church staff(18)
    • college and career(18)
    • sunday school(18)
    • teaching(17)
    • time management(17)
    • books(16)
    • danger(15)
    • communication(14)
    • book review(12)
    • organization(10)
    • podcast(10)
    • media & tech(9)
    • humor(8)
    • team(8)
    • twitter(8)
    • blog(6)
    • music(6)
    • devotional thoughts(5)
    • social networking(5)
    • soulwinning(5)
    • dating(3)
    • marriage(3)
    • satanic(3)
    • education(2)
    • separation(2)
  • Understanding Times
    ptpg
    Justfriendsad
    SS Curriculum
    podcast

    ministry127
  • Great Quotes

    “God uses desperate change to produce dynamic champions”—”Dr. John Goetsch

  • Twitter Updates

    • Took a growing Sr. guy to lunch and then walked around the school visiting with students. Appreciate their great spirit! about 2 hours ago from web
    • Praying for tonight's SH Bible Study as we continue learning how to avoid the traps of the teen years. Tonight—MEDIA! about 8 hours ago from web
    • 1 Cor. 1:24—great ministry philosophy—"Not for that we have dominion over your faith, but are helpers of your joy..." about 9 hours ago from Twitter for iPad
    • Had lunch with Dr. Sisk and @lanceschmidt. Both of them are a great encouragement to me! 01:43:55 PM September 07, 2010 from web
    • Family to sushi lunch for labor day! http://yfrog.com/nceg1j 12:56:58 PM September 06, 2010 from Twitter for iPhone
  • Recent Posts

    • What Teens Ask About Their Parents
    • Discipline that Develops the Heart
    • Becoming an Insightful Parent #2
    • Becoming an Insightful Parent
    • Ministry Idea: 3 Questions
    • Vacation Highlights 2010
    • Who Is Increasing In Your Life?
    • Are Revolutionaries Starting to Recant?
    • Musings on Family Vacations
    • Spiritual Leadership Conference 2010
  • Recent Photos

    Meeting with Mike Huckabee After the Huckabee Show Model Sailboat in Central Park Central Park Even Scarier... Just Flat Scary...
    View more photos >
  • Ministry Links

    • Daily in the Word Radio
    • Dr. Paul Chappell's Blog
    • John Goetsch Blog
    • Lancaster Baptist Church
    • LBC in Spanish
    • Striving Together Publications
    • The Baptist Voice
    • West Coast Baptist College
  • Archives

    • September 2010 (1)
    • August 2010 (5)
    • July 2010 (6)
    • June 2010 (6)
    • May 2010 (7)
    • April 2010 (8)
    • March 2010 (11)
    • February 2010 (7)
    • January 2010 (9)
    • December 2009 (12)
    • November 2009 (6)
    • October 2009 (9)
    • September 2009 (10)
    • August 2009 (11)
    • July 2009 (7)
    • June 2009 (14)
    • May 2009 (5)
    • April 2009 (4)
    • March 2009 (4)
    • February 2009 (2)
    • January 2009 (4)
    • December 2008 (8)
    • November 2008 (3)
    • September 2008 (1)
    • August 2008 (1)
    • May 2008 (2)
    • April 2008 (2)
    • December 2007 (2)
    • July 2007 (4)
    • April 2007 (2)
    • January 2007 (2)
    • November 2006 (4)
    • October 2006 (6)
  • Popular Posts

    • Top 15 Questions Christian Teens Ask
    • Ministry Idea: 3 Questions
    • What Teens Ask About Their Parents
    • Discipline that Develops the Heart
    • Before You Criticize Your Pastor...
    • Becoming an Insightful Parent
    • Vacation Highlights 2010
    • 10 Things Teens Won't Tell You (Part 1)
    • Spiritual Leadership Conference 2010
    • Becoming an Insightful Parent #2
  • Header Links

    • Home
    • About/Contact
    • Archives
    • Books
    • Music CDs
    • Sheet Music
    • Ministry Links
    • Photos
    • The Best News You’ve Ever Read
Powered by WordPress. Built on the Thematic Theme Framework.